Are you in an abusive relationship?

If you answer ‘yes’ to even one of the questions below, you may be in an abusive relationship.


Does your partner:

  • Embarrass you with put downs or name calling?

  • Look at you or act in ways that scare or intimidate you?

  • Control what you do, who you see or talk to or where you go, or act extremely jealous?

  • Stop you from seeing your friends or family?

  • Take your money or Social Security check, make you ask for money or refuse to give you money?

  • Tell you that you’re a bad parent or threaten to take away or hurt your children?

  • Prevent you from working or attending school?

  • Act like the abuse is no big deal, is your fault or even denies doing it?

  • Destroy your property, threaten to kill your pets?

  • Shove you, slap you, choke you, or hit you?

  • Threaten to commit suicide?

  • Pressure you into sexual activity?

  • Stop you from practicing your spirituality or use religion as a threat?


Select the links below to learn more:

What is intimate partner violence?
What does Abuse look like?
Reasons why victims stay in abusive relationships.

For further information call our Victim Advocate at (707) 954-8938 or 1(855) 945-4357.
All services are provided in a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential manner. divider

Funding made possible by: Office of Violence Against Women


There are people who
understand and can help you.

Call 911 if you are in danger.



Stephanie Weldon
MSW Social Services Director

Geneva Shaw
MSW Asst. Social Services Director

Porscha Cobbs
Crisis Worker/Victim Advocate
(707) 445-2422 x 1011
(707) 954-8938

Springwind Rojas
Community Outreach Specialist
(707) 445-2422 x 1011
(707) 482-1350
(707) 954-6468

Mariana Nava
Crisis Worker/Victim Advocate
(707) 954-8737
(707) 482-1350 x 1344

Eureka Office
525 7th St
Eureka, CA 95501

(707) 445-2422 x 1011